Happy Monday! Hope everyone had a good weekend! Today I am collaborating with some other ladies on the topic of "Me Time".
Before Thomas was born, we had established a good routine of my husband taking the kids out of the house for a few hours every once in a while I got caught up on housework. While that was always refreshing to catch up on chores and actually formulate complete thoughts and finish tasks (impossible to stay on task with kids around), I also found it helpful for ME to get out of the house! When Thomas gets a little older, I'd like to make it a priority to go to the coffee shop or library at least once a month by myself and focus on creating lesson plans, meal plans and blog ideas. But for now, while I'm not quite ready to leave Thomas, my "me time" has consisted of pampering myself in the bath and catching up on some inspirational reading and guidance.
I have felt a little overwhelmed recently at my 9 year old growing up so quickly and I've felt a little unprepared on how to navigate topics such as abortion, terrorist acts, material things, technology and even the very beginnings of the "birds and the bees" talks. When my daughter asked me what a abortion was, my heart literally dropped and it made potty training feel like a piece of cake! Thankfully, she has not asked about sex yet, but it might not be as long as I hoped for the subject to arise, so I really want to be ready with a gentle yet informative response. When my husband and I were first engaged, we did not have a true understanding of the Church's teachings on this topic. It wasn't until we were going through Pre Cana classes and were introduced to St. John Paul II's
Theology of the Body that we truly began to understand God's design and plan for marriage and human sexuality. I recently bought
this book to read during my "Me Time" and then with my 9 yr old when she starts asking questions and I feel she is capable of understanding the information. I feel a little more at peace knowing I have some resources to help me navigate this uncomfortable topic.
Another topic I have been concerned about lately, is entitlement. We live in an age where you can receive instant gratification in so many avenues; shopping, communication, entertainment etc. I really want to teach my children to be grateful regardless of their circumstances, obstacles and heartbreaks. As we get older, there are so many times when life doesn't give us what we think we want and I feel the best way to overcome that is having a grateful heart. Yesterday, was an absolutely beautiful day and one of my girls complained that it was "too hot"!! She was half kidding, but it was still an opportunity to teach her the importance of expressing gratitude for the beautiful weather God provided. I have started to read
Raising Grateful Kids in an Entitled World during my "Me Time" in the bath and again, this book has given me confidence to approach this issue.
I always hesitate before publishing a post like this because I don't want to sound like I think I have all the answers (I know for certain that I don't HA!), but I love reading other Moms perspectives on these issues so I thought I'd offer mine as well. What books, philosophies and practices on parenthood do you all recommend? I'd love to hear your suggestions!
Lastly, I love to soak in the tub with my favorite essential oils and Epsom salts, and rejuvenate my skin and hair with various masks and conditioning treatments. I wasn't intending on using this post as an ad to sell my
favorite products, but if you are interested in more details, let me know!
Don't forget to check out what these other ladies do for their Me Time:
